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The Key To Raising Good Kids

December 20, 2010 by .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) at 09:14 AM

Just when you were starting to feel good about self esteem, along comes a psychologist named John Rosemond who says that children who have high self esteem are less likely to grow up to be adults of good character. Combined with the insights of a professor named Roy Baumeister - who teaches that most violent criminals have extraordinarily high self esteem - it would seem that parents and teachers should be focusing on their children's self CONTROL, as opposed to their self ESTEEM. Read more here.

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False praise, creates false self-esteem. It makes sense to me what the authors have hypothesized. There is one part that I take exception, “If Baumeister is right and violent criminals have higher self-esteem than most people, and if Rosemond is right and people who do not grow up with high self-esteem are more likely to be among the finest human beings, then society has the strongest interest in not promoting self-esteem among children.”

I believe there is more too it. What is omitted, is how people react, especially children in situations of high or low self-esteem. Would it not be better to teach people with the skills and tools to handled life experiences?  Is it not character building, and the raising of self-esteem, when a parent sought out methods to improved achievement in their LD child?  And if one method failed, try another one. 

I just believe there is more too it, than the simple hypothesis that was presented in the article.

Posted by Nancy on 12/20 at 10:48 AM

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