Over-Promised and Under-Educated
I’m sure you’ve all been hearing about the Occupy Wall Street movement, but I’m guessing you didn’t know it was initiated by the Canadian activist group Adbusters. I draw this to your attention lest you discount this interesting perspective on the grounds that it is written by an American and can’t possibly apply to Canada.
Anyway, the interesting perspective to which I allude posits that the protesters are justly upset because they had been led to believe by their teachers that they were all special and could expect rewarding careers and brilliant futures. Truthfully, we have let them down.




Interesting juxtaposition between these two quotes from your second article:
“We know that the Occupy Wall Street protest is partly a response to corporate greed, but I suspect it also reflects the disconnect between our aspirations and our reality.”
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“Mrs. Babb affixed a gold star to each page and lovingly pinned them to the bulletin board, silently affirming that yes, these jobs are waiting for you IF YOU WORK HARD.” (emphasis mine)
IF these protests go beyond corporate greed, then it should speak to the enormous disconnect between young people’s view of their work and its worth versus reality. We have discussed at length (and some not all that long ago) their sense of entitlement and self importance.
Although some of that view is nurtured in the classroom; the home and pop culture also need to shoulder some of the burden of that blame. I call it ‘hockey mom’ syndrome - it doesn’t matter how well or poorly their child plays you can hear these parents (no they are not all moms) in the stands cheering as if their kid was already better than Gretzky. Oddly enough, that same attitude is displayed towards teachers and guidance counselors. Try telling an angry parent that because their child got 55% in grade 12 math, they will not be eligible to study engineering at university.
I have a pet theory about all of this - I call it my investment theory. Parents invest enormous sums of money in their children these days. Hockey fees are nearing the thousand dollar / year mark; equipment (and they have to have the best) is expensive, then there are hockey schools, yadda, yadda, yadda. School is the same: instead of a $3.99 calculator at Staples, they have to buy their kid the latest scientific model, the best laptop, smart phones, and dozens of other expensive gadgets. ... All in expectation that by giving their children all the bells and whistles that their parents didn’t give them, their children will do so much better - and when they fail, it has to be somebody’s fault.
Somewhere along the line in the last 40 years, we have equated having the best OPPORTUNITY to succeed with the best ABILITY. Parents have substituted investing in gadgets for investing in time with their children helping them with their homework, their attitudes towards school and success on so on.
PS: I’m counting the parents here at SQE as the EXCEPTION to the rule. By being here, you are already showing more interest in your children’s education than 99% of your cohort. (How do I calculate this figure? I have sat through 50 parent/teacher nights in my career, and have met about half a dozen parents that I really needed to speak to - parents of kids that were struggling. Most parents that show up have ‘A’ students - coincidence?)