Nazi youth were the products of a socialization process
Most parents consider it very important that their kids get "socialized" and give that as a reason why children should go to school. The principle is often extended to kindergarten and preschool as well, the idea being that the earlier the socialization process begins the better.
Now comes a challenge to this notion. The whole article is worth reading, but in a nutshell, this is what it says. During the first five years of a child's life, it is critically important that he or she form a strong affectionate bond with adults who stay in their lives. When young children form stronger attachments to their immature peers as a result of premature socialization, their individuality doesn't have a chance to develop - as these children's seemingly-socialized behaviour is simply copying, as opposed to an expression of their own identities. "The more children are peer attached, the less attached they are to adults—and this can result in children becoming very hostile to being parented or taught."
As a result, parents may be misled about their child's development. "The three-year-old who can’t wait to be with his friends in daycare may in fact be on his way to becoming peer rather than parent attached, because being attached makes us want to be with those we are attached to."
Maybe the home-schoolers are on to something. I have spoken with many home-schooling parents, and to a man they are puzzled by the concept of teenagers with attitude - since apparently home-schooled teenagers are uniformly pleasant and co-operative.




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