Is this too much to ask?
There is an interesting discussion going on in the comments to yesterday's posting about the limits of parental influence. According to Doug, "the education system is not an à la carte menu where you choose your own curriculum and pedagogy".
So I thought it might be useful to look at a situation somewhat analagous to the situation of a child who is struggling in school. Suppose you are the parent of a child who has a mysterious illness. You take him to your family doctor, who tries various things, but nothing works - and your kid keeps getting sicker. You consult Dr. Google, and you find a medical condition that seems to be exactly what your child has. So you go back to your family doctor and ask him to prescribe the indicated medicine. Your doctor refuses, because he resents your using Dr. Google and anyway he doesn't approve of that particular medicine. What do you do?
Here the analogy with the intransigent classroom teacher breaks down, because all you have to do is ask your doctor for a referral, which he is duty-bound to give, and soon you find a doctor who agrees with you, prescribes the medicine, your child recovers, and all is well.
The difference is, of course, that you're stuck with your intransigent classroom teacher for the rest of the year - unless you have enough savvy to work the system or enough money to move to a different catchment area or pay for private school.
It seems to me that because of this crucial difference the school system should have a built-in safety net for parents whereby they can ask for a referral, just as medical patients can.




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